Wednesday, February 18, 2009

BIGGER OUCH

Turns out there is something worse than sitting at home on Valentine's Day night working while your son is out to dinner with your ex-husband's girlfriend. My friend A. spent her Valentine's Day evening out to dinner WITH her ex-husband and his girlfriend (as in the girlfriend-that-was-the-other-woman-and-broke-up-the-marriage girlfriend). It was her son's fourth birthday, so there they all were - one, big, happy family (????) - at Chuck E. Cheese.

It is so painful what we single moms grin and bear sometimes for the sake of our kids.

My friend K.'s 9-year-old son had to write an essay about someone who had made a difference in his life. He wrote about his dad's girlfriend (as in the girlfriend-that-was-the-other-woman-and-broke-up-the-marriage girlfriend). He proudly had his mom review it before he turned it in. Talk about a knife in the heart.

1 comment:

PinkLemonade said...

oh good land... each of these would be so very hard to deal with...I hope that each of these children grows up and realizes how kind God was to give them mothers who dealt with tough situations gracefully...and that they themselves never have to deal with a scenario like these...